what you don't see


I have to tell you how amazingly freeing it is to show you the photo above. When I started writing this post and looking for photos that show the, “what you don’t see”, I started finding and laughing at all sorts of discarded photos in my computer files. What you could perceive from the first fireplace photo is that my house is perfect enough to get this shot or as one comment I received on the fireplace photo, “It’s like you live in a magazine”. ..ha, not with four kids and a dog! That is just photography magic (and clever cropping) my dear friends. I’m pretty sure a magazine wouldn’t have an unfinished fireplace, dusty wood floors, a discarded newspaper and wires poking out where once there was a flat screen. There is so much we don’t see in photography.
I took the “pretty” fireplace photo before we were finished because I needed inspiration. Priming and painting an entire two story, floor to ceiling fireplace is not an easy task and taking this photo kept me focused. It reminded me that soon, hopefully soon, I would have a wonderful showpiece in the house in which to hang our family’s stockings and decorate with each new season.
Photos speak volumes in both what it shows and doesn’t show the viewer. Often times what you don’t see, the real shot, is the most beautiful part. I have a photo of one of our newly arrived chicks sitting on a window sill looking out. In hindsight what I wish I had done was take a step back or two. What you would have seen then was my sweet husbands’ hands cupped underneath the window sill, steadying himself there just in case miss chick decided to jump, simply because I had asked. To me, that memory means so much more than the professional looking chick photo. It reminds me how real and wonderful life is outside the perfect point of focus. How although a pretty picture has its place to keep us inspired, the not so perfect shots (or uncropped versions) shouldn’t be so easily discarded, because they too have a story to tell. The newspaper on the ottoman in the right side of the fireplace photo…my kids sharing a chair, laughing and reading the Sunday comics in pj’s.
A dear friend of mine posted this photo on flickr a few years ago. Out of the hundreds of beautiful and perfect shots she has taken through the years, this one stands out most in mind. Why? Because it is so real. It is her and I adore her. It is her life on her farm summed up in a single photo and I find it so achingly beautiful. Today, show us the real, the perfectionist, the messy, the inspirational, the uncropped and the gorgeously, beautiful parts of YOU.
Images and words courtesy of the lovely Andie edwards.