smiling at strangers


I don't think people smile enough anymore, myself included. In New York City, most people are too caught up in the hustle bustle of every day. We move through life without looking up, often not connecting with any of the other 8 million people who live here. Believe it or not, sometimes it can be a lonely place.
This is especially true underground on the subway where everyone has their own little routines and distractions--reading the newspaper, listening to music, swiping away on smart phones, kindles and iPads, or even sleeping. We have our commutes down to a science. We know exactly where to stand on the platform to be in the perfect spot when the doors slide open at our destination so as to not waste a single moment. And although we sit, stand and hover a mere inches from each other every day there is rarely any eye contact, and definitely not enough smiles.
So I decided to play my small part in trying to do something about it. I recently started leaving notes on the subway that simply say "smile at a stranger today." I've typed them, handwritten them and even had some little cards made. I've taped them to walls in subway stations and train cars and I often leave them on the seats where they will catch the most attention. Yesterday, a woman picked up one of the notes I left as she sat down across from me. She read it, looked up, and smiled. And today, these two people struck up a conversation after I left my notes on the seat next to them. I don't expect to change the world but I'll take what I can get, one smile at a time.
How about you? Have you sent any messages to the universe lately? Whether it's literally with notes or words, or creatively through your photographs, share with us today what you are saying to the world around you.
Images and words courtesy of iphoneographer Christy of Urban Muser. You can also find her at Mortal Muses every nine days or so.